IDENTITY CRISES

Who are you?...

Can you really say "this is who I am"?
If you have a firm grip on your Identity, we've solved 7/10 of the issues we face as children of God living in this world. You don't know how cool and mind-blowing it is to be "A" child of "THE" God(that's significant street cred both on, above, and beneath the earth😎). Asin that God different Christians all over the planet, talk about, preach about is your "Daddy" and you're over there acting anyhow, mehn!  you dey mess uppp😤. 
But let's be real for a second I can trace a lot of issues we have today to the fact we don't have an identity of our own. So, what is an Identity crisis according to the dictionary:
"An Identity crisis is a period of uncertainty and confusion in which a person's sense of identity becomes insecure, typically due to a change in their expected aims or role in society "

It's funny, the definition says a "period" but most people have experienced this for what feels like their entire lifetime.
NEVER FEAR, RONIE IS HERE 😂 ✈!
Today I'm going to give a couple of pointers on how I found my Identity..let's go 🍃 
Number One;
~NEWYEAR~NEWME~
Biko stop this you, want to be renewing yourself every year? When will you have a steady, progressive direction? sometimes this "new me" syndrome is not an effort to back up words with action, but a desire to feel like one with a plan. like how you wake up and make a to-do list not because you plan to follow it, but rather because you want to feel like you've got your day together. You decide to deceive yourself? 
Instead of the New year, new me try New year, new Tier. Make every new phase the closing or conclusion of an old phase and an upgrade to the past phase. This helps you build a record you can track and it gives your time frame, "VALUE".It builds a portfolio for you or in other words an identity. 
I chose to keep today short to allow you to reminisce on my first point. Think about how many fresh starts you make for yourself because you don't even commit to one...
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 I love you guys but God loves you more, it's still your girl Quin_ronie promising to keep it real. period!
xoxo

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