P FOR PEERS 😩 (cont'd)

Hey my lovely kings and quins,



LET'S SHOOT SHARP AND CONTINUE FRIDAY'S GIST

2)BE UNIQUE
    I read a quote that said, "Peer pressure is the pressure you put on yourself to fit it".Ask yourself a question, If you want to be a billionaire,  a celebrity, or someone super influential globally(the hot pepper soup of the Elon musk kind), Do you think it's possible to fit it? So, why do you fight to fit into a mold you subconsciously know is not for you? 
You are peculiar people, a royal priesthood, you have a destiny that following God's plan,  is impossible for you to "FIT IN" Ee no go work, so biko forgerrabourit. Embrace your uniqueness, Fall in love with your quirks, and constantly remind yourself of this simple mantra;
"FOR THE FUTURE I DESIRE
 I MUST PAVE THE ROAD I REQUIRE,
 I CAN NOT SUCCUMB TO THE CROWD,
 ELSE I WEARY MY CROWN".
P.s(I get bars, I know I know😂)

3)COMPANY
    Sometimes these friends that we have may not necessarily be bad people, they may just be giving you advice or persuading you to do things they think will help you based on experiences they've had or what they know(remember you can only give what you have).
    I can't stress this enough! the reason I'm mentality, emotionally, and spiritually where I am today has a lot to do with my circle. This doesn't mean you should pack bodies into your space and call them friends, a few people in your life that are more than friends to you and you are good to go(Everybody can't be your friend). And please my brother, my sister it's not a sin to use the word "AQUAINTANCES", you won't choke, you won't faint. use it !!!!.
    Now I didn't say be rude to people, I'm saying outline what you look out for in your friends(pro 18:24,17:17,27:9),(john 15:12-13),(job 16:20-21,42:10), Have friendship standards, Give yourself some value, not everyone should have access to you on the same level. Have you ever just had love, pure love for a friend, or had a friend who wanted nothing but the best for you? When you have friends hand-picked by God, the only pressure you'll receive from them will be how to hack life and grow together.


4)BE FIRM: 
    The best thing about knowing yourself, outlining your future, and walking in purpose is that you can't easily be swayed. Being firm doesn't make you dull, shrewd, lame, or ignorant rather it makes you bold, focused, swift and helps you plan your life in such a way that you give balance to what is needed. In the same vein when you know where you're going and who the word of God says you are, IT GIVES YOU THIS STRENGTH TO USE THIS WORD THAT IS ALWAYS HEAVY ON THE TOUNGE"NO".
    Statements like"No vex guys I no go fit", "I can't go there or do that. I don't believe in that", and "I DIDN'T BUDGET FOR THAT", will save you a lifetime of "had I known's". Being firm helps you avoid issues from the start instead of "we'll see", "I'll think about it" SAY NO! ABEG SAY NO!, AVOID SAPA, AVOID "IF TO SAY", drink water and have peace. 


5)BE THE STANDARD: 
    We have been put on this earth to show the world the original template for crushing it at life: "SALVATION".Every day you live the Zoe life, you are the standard, and when I say this gets me. You carry the DNA of the standard(JESUS) and you are made in his image, soooo do the math and start to act(I'm on a roll oh😎).
    You are the standard!, they should see you win at life and understand that in God you've got it complete, You get the ultimate bonus package on earth and in Heaven, It's  A WIN, WIN DEAL!!!. 
   Saying this and not living the "life" equivalent is simply pietism (Assignment go and find out the meaning and add to your vocabulary, Don't say I didn't teach you anything oh 😂). So remember they don't give you the pressure, because there is no pressure(appeal) for a life that is the watered-down substitute to the ZOE LIFE!! (Zerubbabel with finesse 😂😅 thank you, bobby).

Before we draw the curtain I want you to say this to yourself constantly

I'M NOT A VICTIM OF PEER PRESSURE
RATHER I PUT A PIN IN THE PRESSURE
I NO LONGER TRY HARD TO MEASURE 
 I HAVE REALISED I'M A TREASURE

Remember to join the gist by 6pm on Fridays 😁.

 I love you guys but God loves you more, it's still your girl Quin_ronie promising to keep it real. period!
xoxo

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