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TAPS (Do you like sucess?)

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Ever heard phrases like" I just want dey like machala...." You know the rest πŸ˜… , or "I just want to be living that baby girl lifestyle"? Most times because we just want to wake up to an already-made life we develop this apathy toward work. I shared previously how I loved living in my head more than putting in the required effort to bring the life in my head to reality.  This is a New year and how you start it is important, If you are sitting somewhere waiting for someone to come and do everything for you, take it from me it's not a progressive mentality, it's not the 21st-way baby, rather, It's giving dependent, it's giving lazy, and worst of all it's a sign of TAPS. I can hear you asking, which one is Taps now? Well, TAPS stands for The Anti Process Syndrome. I chose the name πŸ˜‚ I'm trying to get you to understand something so stay with me. You know you love travelling, seeing new places and having new experiences but you don...

2023 (To be or not to be? That is ZI Question)

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 Hello lovely kings and Quins  ♫♫♫I WANNA WISH YOU A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!😁  LET’S START THE YEAR WITH A TOAST;  !!TO MORE WINS, MORE RIDES, NEW MONEY, AND THE GOOD LIFE!!🍷 I really love you guys, thank you for all the support last year and for everyone who gave me words of encouragement and a prayer may God bless youπŸ’‹                 Now I know the toast was wonderful, it probably got your imagination going on about 2023 being “THE YEAR” buuuut if I’m gonna be honest “It is not of he that wisheth nor of he that dreameth but of the one who showeth workingπŸ˜‚”. 2023 is not where you’ll write your resolution and forget it after January 31 st . I noticed a pattern in my life I loved what my imagination did for me. it gave me this fulfilling comfort, you know the mind is powerful, your thoughts go so far switch your emotions, sync them with your thoughts, and I loved that feeling of fulfi...

F.R.E.N.E.M.I.E.S 2

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Hi lovely kings and quins  I'm back 😁!! How has your week been? Let me know in the comments. If you missed last week's topics just go, read up and come back here.Today we will be talking about  4)THE BOAT SINKERS Now let's get back to the gist πŸŒ€  Isn't this picture funny. Well I think it's very scary. Imagine being in this situation, completely unaware of what is coming behind. This is the image of a "boat sinker". These people get so close to you, you let them aboard your boat, they eat with you, you open up to them about your secrets and plans, you are plain before them, absolutely no walls!.  In Nigeria(my homeland), we call them "household enemies" πŸ˜‚. They will make sure you get sacked and join you to cry and insult you boss, they will be toasting your boyfriend/girlfriend then still be saying to you "be careful this guy/girl is not pure", They will trade you for money and turn around to  kiss your cheek . The...

F.R.E.N.E.M.I.E.S.

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Hi lovely kings and quins 😁  Settle in for a story Once upon a time A man had a pet python. Every night the python would lay straight beside him. This made him so happy that his pet loved him so much and wanted to be close to him at night. One of those days, he took a picture to post on  Facebook and lots of wonderful comments where made,  but one stood out. A python expert informed him that contrary to his assumptions, the animal lays beside him to take measurements of his full length. The day the python is confident that he can swallow him, it will do so. So many of us have people that act caring towards us and we assume thier Inentions are pure towards. Now the bible says to love your neighbour as you love yourself. How do you do this without leaving yourself open for attacks and hurts, I know some have been so hurt and they decide to set up walls around themselves. I had walls high as the great wall of China because of past hurt and disappointments. I'll ...

IDENTITY CRISES

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Who are you?... Can you really say "this is who I am"? If you have a firm grip on your Identity, we've solved 7/10 of the issues we face as children of God living in this world. You don't know how cool and mind-blowing it is to be "A" child of "THE" God(that's significant street cred both on, above, and beneath the earth😎). Asin that God different Christians all over the planet, talk about, preach about is your "Daddy" and you're over there acting anyhow, mehn!  you dey mess uppp😀.  But let's be real for a second I can trace a lot of issues we have today to the fact we don't have an identity of our own. So, what is an Identity crisis according to the dictionary: "An Identity crisis is a period of uncertainty and confusion in which a person's sense of identity becomes insecure, typically due to a change in their expected aims or role in society " It's funny, the definition says a "peri...

The "Red man" fever

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Hello ♥ my lovely kings and quins, today I have quite the story for you. Hope you are ready? πŸ˜‚ Let's gooo!      I walked in on my friend taru literally lost in thought, I mean this guy's left arm was up and he was cruising, he had his shades on and everything(very devoted imagining), I was scared out of my mind. I slowly walked up to him, hit him on his head and asked "guy you sure say you well?", oga literally yelled "Omo! This girl,why are you an enemy of progress, I don daydream go far,I was chilling with machala my guyy". I laughed my head off and said " you will dream,wake up, soak garri and continue like this, no go do something with yourself".     This is what most of us do everyday. You get in a hyped up mood,  starting your day off the fuel of last nights imagination turned dream,the" I must blow today" mindset embedded in you, then small sun on your face or a little bit of stress and your back indoors, singing ...

INSECURITY (A TAINTED REFLECTION)

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My lovely Kings and quins,hope you missed me. Well I'm back!!, right here and ready for you.  So get cozy let's continue where we stopped... ....The funny thing is sometimes we get so comfortable being insecure,  when we are presented with opportunities to be better, we automatically look at the level that the new one comes with and begin to feel insecure about it(You never enjoy your wins) it's honestly a dead life.You become a man living in a constant cycle of distaste, ungratefulness and low self confidence. Clean the dust and see CLEARLY!! The fact that you can see does not necessarily mean you are seeing correctly. "The world has its own parameters for creating or constructing the tools from which it sees itself and because  the flesh can only birth a void filled outlook, that's what you see. I'll explain. Your spirit man is groomed by what you give it, that determines its outcome in as much as God placed him there you have a responsibility to ...