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Signs you are toxic

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                     Hello, my lovely kings and quins,           So you got the girl or the guy and you're in the honey bunny phase, you've never been here before, and quite honestly it's amazing. Or maybe you're a sweetheart and once you meet Mr/Mrs right you just give them everything lovely and sweet, why then do they check out? Why don't they stay and start something solid with you? Why do you feel drained by this thing that is meant to make you bubbly?            A doctor will first examine 'you' and determine whether are no internal or habitual factors linked to the challenge before he would consider external. Though he may spot the challenge from head knowledge, he will still run tests to ensure all parameters are covered. This generation as I said has a lot of broken kids, who grew into broken teens that are now toxic adults trying to sedate their...

Now Valentines' is Over.

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 Hello lovely kings and quins, How are we all feeling? Valentines' was super romantic right? You got all you wanted and more? If you didn't, sorry, remember your God never flops, he never wears flip-flops, you are going through a season of singleness. This special post is dedicated to my new Valentine's couples(I promise you guys, I'm still a Preacher of love). The ones whose valentine felt like a proposal and with everything gift and gesture they received from their significant other, they just knew he or she was the one, Those who made some messy decisions & are feeling down, and Those who took my advice to them from my last post and realized what at the time was in the air, for them wasn't love.I have come for a small chat and I'll be on my merry way, no violence intended.  Now, In case you are unaware, Many chemicals and hormones are involved in passionate love, and after they go back to a normal level, the passion is gone; 1) Dopamine:   Dopamine causes...

Valentine's Checklist

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    If you are in a room and gas is released, the first thing is to find a way to protect yourself from inhaling the gas before you find out if it is pure and safe, TRUE OR FALSE? So, why are we quick to be intoxicated by "love" without first vetting it? without checking if its quality is acceptable or not. Or are we so love-starved that we accept anything? or do we lack the true concept of what love should be? On the 14th of February, rather if I'm thoroughly honest, from the 1st of February the air gets really tense and so many people get on with the statement "Love is in the air" as though cupid releases "The Love gas" to make us woozy and lose our sense of reasoning. I've got a simple question; If love is in the air, What does it smell like?  It's a good conversation, If we say Love is in the air we should be able to identify what love is and not what it is perceived to be. I said last week, so much is being used as a re...

Roses are What?

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Hello lovely kings and quins๐Ÿซถ, The Month of Love, the season of butterflies, roses, and violets. Where once a year people demonstrate their impressions of love through all the different love languages. "God when" and "Aww," will soak the ears of the anti-valentine activists, when couples and singles put themselves under serious pressure to choke those who do not care how much their partners love them.Welcome to Valentine fever!! I did not come to you today with any stories or tips, let's leave that for next week๐Ÿ˜‚. I'm here to quiet the noise in your head telling you to bring out your savings, buy all you think will cause traffic on your social media and do fake videos to satisfy the heavy burden in you for the real thing. Please sister, and brother..Do Not DO IT!! When your eye clear you will sip garri back to health.  I am also here to talk those who believe they deserve love so much they forget to give love to the people they expect it from. ...

TAPS (Do you like sucess?)

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Ever heard phrases like" I just want dey like machala...." You know the rest ๐Ÿ˜… , or "I just want to be living that baby girl lifestyle"? Most times because we just want to wake up to an already-made life we develop this apathy toward work. I shared previously how I loved living in my head more than putting in the required effort to bring the life in my head to reality.  This is a New year and how you start it is important, If you are sitting somewhere waiting for someone to come and do everything for you, take it from me it's not a progressive mentality, it's not the 21st-way baby, rather, It's giving dependent, it's giving lazy, and worst of all it's a sign of TAPS. I can hear you asking, which one is Taps now? Well, TAPS stands for The Anti Process Syndrome. I chose the name ๐Ÿ˜‚ I'm trying to get you to understand something so stay with me. You know you love travelling, seeing new places and having new experiences but you don...

2023 (To be or not to be? That is ZI Question)

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 Hello lovely kings and Quins  ♫♫♫I WANNA WISH YOU A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!๐Ÿ˜  LET’S START THE YEAR WITH A TOAST;  !!TO MORE WINS, MORE RIDES, NEW MONEY, AND THE GOOD LIFE!!๐Ÿท I really love you guys, thank you for all the support last year and for everyone who gave me words of encouragement and a prayer may God bless you๐Ÿ’‹                 Now I know the toast was wonderful, it probably got your imagination going on about 2023 being “THE YEAR” buuuut if I’m gonna be honest “It is not of he that wisheth nor of he that dreameth but of the one who showeth working๐Ÿ˜‚”. 2023 is not where you’ll write your resolution and forget it after January 31 st . I noticed a pattern in my life I loved what my imagination did for me. it gave me this fulfilling comfort, you know the mind is powerful, your thoughts go so far switch your emotions, sync them with your thoughts, and I loved that feeling of fulfi...

F.R.E.N.E.M.I.E.S 2

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Hi lovely kings and quins  I'm back ๐Ÿ˜!! How has your week been? Let me know in the comments. If you missed last week's topics just go, read up and come back here.Today we will be talking about  4)THE BOAT SINKERS Now let's get back to the gist ๐ŸŒ€  Isn't this picture funny. Well I think it's very scary. Imagine being in this situation, completely unaware of what is coming behind. This is the image of a "boat sinker". These people get so close to you, you let them aboard your boat, they eat with you, you open up to them about your secrets and plans, you are plain before them, absolutely no walls!.  In Nigeria(my homeland), we call them "household enemies" ๐Ÿ˜‚. They will make sure you get sacked and join you to cry and insult you boss, they will be toasting your boyfriend/girlfriend then still be saying to you "be careful this guy/girl is not pure", They will trade you for money and turn around to  kiss your cheek . The...